The Impact of Choices
Chris Sandy's life was irrevocably altered on April 11, 2000, when a night of reckless decisions culminated in a drunk driving accident that took the lives of two people. At just 22 years old, Chris, who lived near Atlanta, Georgia, made a choice that would follow him forever. Following the crash, he was sentenced to 13 years in prison for vehicular homicide and reckless driving, serving eight and a half years of that sentence. On Thursday, Oct. 31, Chris told his story to a captivated Westminster audience. Rather than focusing on statistics about drunk driving, Chris took a personal narrative approach, illustrating the real-life waterfall that poor choices can make.
The immediate consequences of Chris’s actions were severe, not just for him but for the victims’ families. He often reflects on the weight of his guilt, understanding that no prison sentence could ever equate to the loss experienced by the families of the two lives he took that night. While in prison, Chris confronted the reality of his choices and the pain they caused. He also spoke about how his choices continued to impact his own personal life in tragic ways, including his incarceration being the cause of his parents divorce after 30 years of marriage, losing the close relationship he had with his younger sister, and the death of his father, who had a heart attack in the prison parking lot after a routine visit to his son in jail.
During his incarceration, Chris sought ways to make amends through self-improvement and accountability. He volunteered for various programs, hoping to transform his negative experience into something positive. It was during this time that a documentary about his life, titled Enduring Regret, was produced. The film, which later won two Emmy Awards, chronicled his journey and the lessons learned, offering a glimpse into both the consequences of his actions and his efforts to change.
Since his release in 2009, Chris has dedicated his life to advocacy and education. He travels across the country, sharing his story with students and community groups. His approach is grounded in honesty and relatability, aiming to inspire others to make wise choices. “I’m not here to tell you what not to do,” he stated. “You already know what’s right and wrong. My goal is to motivate you to make choices that lead to happiness and success.”
Chris’s message resonates with the audiences he speaks to, particularly young people who may not yet understand the long-term impacts of their decisions. He encourages them to think critically about their actions and the potential consequences.
The emotional weight of his past remains with him, but Chris has found ways to channel his regret into a powerful and impactful platform. He emphasizes that while everyone makes mistakes, what truly matters is how one chooses to respond to those mistakes.